Moving with Kids and Pets: A Family Move Survival Guide
Moving day is the single highest-risk day for a pet to go missing — and the day kids feel the disruption most. Here's how to manage both.
Moving day is the single highest-risk day of the year for a family pet to go missing — an open front door during loading is all it takes. It's also the day kids feel the disruption most, even when the move itself is good news for the family.
Neither problem is solved by hoping for the best. Both have a real plan.
Moving with kids, by age
What actually helps a kid through a move changes a lot by age — a toddler and a teenager need almost opposite approaches.
- Under 5: routine matters more than the new space itself — keep a familiar toy or blanket with you, not on the truck, and try to hold nap and meal times steady around the move
- 6-12: let them pack a "special box" of their own choosing — a sense of control over even a small part of the move reduces how disruptive it feels
- Teens: loop them into the actual plan, and give them a real say in their new room setup — being informed matters more than being managed at this age
- All ages: set up bedrooms first at the new place, even before the kitchen — kids settle faster once their own space is assembled
Moving with a dog
- Keep walk times and feeding times as close to normal as possible in the days around the move
- Update ID tags and microchip registration with the new address before move day, not after
- Bring a familiar bed, a favourite toy, and several days of their regular food — a new-city pet store trip can wait
Moving with a cat
- Keep cats in a secure carrier or one closed room during active loading and unloading — an open front door is the number one reason cats go missing on moving day
- Bring familiar litter and food; switching brands during a move doubles the stress
- Set up a small "safe room" at the new place — litter, food, water, a hiding spot — before letting a cat explore the rest of the home
Move day for the whole family
The common thread for both kids and pets on move day: minimize the hours they spend in the middle of the chaos.
- Arrange care for young kids and pets during the actual loading and unloading window if you can — a sitter, a relative, or even a few hours at daycare
- Keep one full day's worth of familiar snacks and comfort items in the essentials box, not the truck
- If a pet or child can't be elsewhere during the move, designate one closed-off, calm room for them until the front door stops being propped open
Turn this into a printable system
Every post pairs with a binder or checklist you can actually put on the fridge.
Take this with you: the free The Ultimate Printable Home Moving Checklist for Canadian Families
A printable PDF of the full checklist, emailed to you. Everything to do in the 8 weeks before, during, and after a Canadian move — packing systems, labeling, kids, pets, downsizing, and address changes in one printable checklist.
Read the checklist onlineAll free resourcesPersonalized version, CA$9
Frequently asked questions
Keep them in a secure carrier or one closed-off room during active loading and unloading — the open front door during that window is the top reason pets go missing on move day. Update ID tags and microchip details with the new address ahead of time.
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